Endearing Words Before the End: Reflecting on Our Final Goodbyes
Reflecting on what we would say to our loved ones if the world was to end is a deeply personal and poignant exercise. Whether we're facing an immediate future or a more impending one, the act of preparing our final words can offer a profound sense of closure and connection.
Length of Time and the Immediate Future
Depending on how much time we have remaining, our final words might differ significantly. In cases where we are unsure or face an immediate potential end, we find ourselves reaching out by telephone or, if we can physically meet, in person.
For someone who feels the weight of past regrets, like a mother, partner, or family member, the immediate goodbye often begins with a heartfelt apology. One mom or partner might say, "Goodbye, I love you, and I wish I had been a better brother to you." This statement encapsulates the desire to leave behind a legacy of love, even with unresolved feelings.
The Final Moment
As the end draws closer, the words we utter change. In a scenario where the end is imminent, such as in the aftermath of a fatal accident or catastrophic event, the final goodbye can be briefer yet more intense. For example, someone might say, "See you on the other side, Smrity." This could be a playful reference to the idea of meeting in a different plane of existence, offering comfort in the face of the unknown.
Loading Imminent, Choose Peace
When the loading becomes imminent, the urgency intensifies. Whether it's a car crash or another life-ending event, the act of preparation becomes a source of strength. In moments of such finality, choosing the path of peace and comfort can be a profound act of love. Someone might request, "Quick and painless please. Reality might be different, but if there's any choice… Quick and painless." This simple request speaks to the desire for the final moments to be as gentle and relieved as possible, even if the outcome is inevitable.
A Lifelong Journey of Apologies and Gratitude
Reflecting on what we would say to our loved ones if the world was destroyed, we realize that the final moments should be a culmination of love, forgiveness, and gratitude. Most of our loved ones have already heard our deepest apologies and expressions of gratitude. If the end is close, it's the time to reiterate these feelings in a way that leaves no doubt about our convictions.
We would sincerely apologize for all the things they might think we’ve done wrong and thank them for the moments they shared with us. Most importantly, we would encourage them to stay strong, knowing that our love will last beyond the physical realm.
Living in Hope
Given that the world is not set to be destroyed, we have the luxury of living our lives in a way that reflects these values. We should seek to foster connections, share our love, and apologize for past wrongs. Every day is a potential for a new goodbye, and every goodbye can be an opportunity to express our love more deeply.
Lastly, in moments of reflection and finality, many people turn to their faith, praying for forgiveness for all sins, big or small, open or hidden, knowingly or unknowingly. They hope and pray that they will meet again in the afterlife if such a place exists.
As we face the possibility of an end, our words can serve as a bridge, connecting us one last time with those we love.