Is 71 Too Old to Adopt a Dog? A Heartwarming Perspective
Age is often a
serious consideration when thinking about adopting a dog, especially for individuals like ourselves. Many may feel that 71 is too old to bring a new furry companion into their lives. However, this story showcases a different view and brings forth a genuine and heartwarming perspective.
My Journey with Dogs: A Lifelong Companion
I have always had a dog in my life, and my kids often tell me that I'm too old to have a dog now. Despite the concerns, adopting a dog at this stage in my life can still be a rewarding experience, especially if it's an older dog that can accompany you through your golden years.
One key factor to consider is to adopt an older dog, as they typically require less exercise and have fewer behavioral issues associated with puppies. This can be beneficial not only for your health but also for your peace of mind as you transition into this next phase of your life.
Concerns and Solutions
My family advises against adopting a dog, particularly younger ones, due to worries about who would continue to care for the dog if I'm no longer capable. This is a valid concern. While it's essential to have a plan in place, considering fostering from many shelters can offer a solution. Shelters are always in need of foster homes and can help ensure that the dog is placed in a suitable environment until a permanent home is found.
Age is just a number, and if you feel you can take on another dog, it's important to do so—preferably an older dog, not a puppy. It's crucial to have a backup plan as well, to take over the dog's care if needed. This way, you can enjoy the companionship and joy that a dog brings without putting any additional burden on your loved ones.
A Personal Experience
When our Whippet was nearing the end of her life due to degenerative myelopathy, we knew that adding another Basset Hound to our household was a suitable choice. Our previous Basset had passed away, and we felt that a Basset was what made our home complete. Although our new Basset only spent five months with our Whippet, we knew that having him in our lives was worth it.
We have never regretted having our last Basset, and our husband is also older than you. This is a reminder that age does not limit you from enjoying the joy that a dog can bring to your life. We must ensure that there is someone available to take over the responsibility if needed, but this should not prevent us from pursuing our dreams.
Advice for Those Considering Dog Ownership
A few people advise on getting a dog, while others suggest finding a good home for the dog after your lifetime. I agree with the second group. If you believe that you cannot find someone to take over the dog's care, then it would be an entirely selfish act to adopt a dog. The initial choice of a young dog to grow old together can lead to a life-long bond and companionship.
I had a friend who was close to eighty years old and wanted a dog. I took him to an animal rescue center and found a sweet little dog. Initially, my friend thought he should adopt the older spaniel in the next cage. However, I convinced him to choose the lively younger dog instead. At first, the younger dog was difficult to control due to his high energy level, but eventually, he adapted to his new environment and became an inseparable part of my friend's life. My friend and his dog lived happily together for fifteen years, and both passed away at an old age just a year apart. This story underscores the importance of choosing a young dog to grow old together, as the dog and the owner have many years left to enjoy each other's company.
Therefore, I urge you to consider adopting a dog, specifically an older one, and make plans for the future. Ensure that there is a backup plan, and you should be able to enjoy the companionship that a dog brings without giving up on the dream of owning a pet.