Surprises and Realities of Living in the Philippines
When asked to share what surprised me the most about the Philippines, my initial response often surprises some people: I live in the Philippines, so my perspective is that of a permanent resident rather than a short-term visitor.
Unforeseen Cultural Differences
One immediate surprise was the frequent and respectful address of me as aate, which translates to 'big sister.' Whether I was greeted by guards or casual acquaintances, this honorific was always present, symbolizing both respect and a sense of familial closeness.
From the moment I arrived, I was aware that living in the Philippines would come with its share of culture shock. Every building had its own security guards, a reality that reflected the high safety concerns of the nation. This was just the beginning of the surprises.
Cultural Diversity and Regional Differences
Significantly, what deeply impressed me was the cultural diversity within the country. Each region is like a new world, characterized by distinct attributes and lifestyles. For instance, Batanes, with its warm and welcoming community, stands out as a personal favorite. However, as you move to Manila, the stark contrast is evident. The buzz of activity, traffic, and the melting pot of experiences can take you from a serene island paradise to the bustling heart of the country in an instant.
The diversity extends beyond the obvious urban-suburban divide. It encompasses ethnic backgrounds, religious beliefs, and even different perceptions of life's meaning. This vast tapestry of differences is both a challenge and a blessing, enriching the fabric of the nation's identity.
Living in a Third World Country
Contrary to popular belief, I had prepared myself for the difficulties associated with living in a third-world country. However, the depth of need regarding money and the methods used to vanish it was beyond my imagination. Filipinos are resourceful in the face of economic hardship, yet often focus on immediate survival rather than long-term upward mobility. This works in a system where connections and external aid are crucial for advancement.
Environmental and Health Insights
The issue of pollution was another unexpected challenge. While I had been taught that the world was coming together to protect the environment, the Philippines stood as a stark contrast. The pervasive plastic waste, air pollution, and noise pollution were shocking. The Philippines might be the loudest and most polluted country, with the heaviest plastic waste and dirtiest exhausts from vehicles.
Another surprise and concern was the issue of clean drinking water. I was under the impression that the country had advanced systems in place to prevent diseases, especially in rural areas. However, I frequently encounter situations where waterborne diseases are prevalent, leading to the tragic loss of children. Health education on topics such as the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and HIV is clearly lacking, even with the availability of water purification systems in many places.
Conclusion
Living in the Philippines has shown me more than just scenic beauty and cultural richness. It has revealed the complexities and challenges that come with life in a developing nation. The country is at a crossroads, balancing heritage with modernization, and the experiences I have had have been nothing short of enlightening.